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Showing posts with label Death/mourning. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Death/mourning. Show all posts

Saturday, 30 May 2015

A last farewell to a faithful companion - Føyke 2005-2015


    Friday 29th of May, 2015 – Føyke, our dear Alaskan Husky went peaceful to sleep.

    We adopted Føyke ( ‘snow drift’ in Norwegian )  when she was 4 years old. We do not know much about her past but she was very insecure at the beginning, wouldn't eat much, and it took a while before she adjusted and understood that she now had a permanent home.

Føyke, May 2015
   

    At the time we had four young children, three cats, birds, a hamster and lived in a tiny little house in the center of town. Thinking in retrospective, the decision to adopt a dog was maybe not thoroughly thought through.


    I had been looking at adds on the internet and was drawn to a photo of a beautiful, slim husky lying down, and looking slightly to the side, she was described as a nice and sweet tempered dog, perfect for a family. I called, and on my birthday in 2009 a lady came to our house, presented me with a vaccination book, a bag of food, and a leather leash with a dog on the other end. I paid the adoption fee, and introduced the dog to our household. Our oldest cat was not impressed, the kids were a little unsure, and our female cat welcomed her to the home by jumping on her rear with claws drawn. Føyke put up with the abuse from Princess cat,  and went on to become best pal with Emilie, tolerated by the older cats and adored by the two kittens we got within the next years.

    I had no idea that Huskies were so active, disobedient, and prone to running away. Within two months  she managed to escape and appeared in the local newspaper after she showed up at the town hall and had been taken in by the receptionist. Once when  shopping, I was surprised when a man loudly called in the shop, asking for the owner the dog who was running around the traffic with a piece of a garbage can dangling behind… that was the last time I casual tied her to anything without making sure it would not come apart.

    She was famous for pulling hard when on walks, and stealing food. She was ravenously hungry and  would devour anything that was left within her reach, including once pulling an entire pizza from the dinning room table- probably one of the reason she developed a liver problem in her later years.

    It was about autumn last year when we noticed she had started to slow down a bit, by Easter I knew something was wrong. She had lumps on her abdomen, was losing interest in doggy activities such as long walks, and chewing bones, she had also become melancholic. I took her to the vet, and it was no surprise when she was diagnosis with canine breast cancer ! She was now about 10 years old, or 75 in dog years and a blood test also revealed a damaged liver. The vet of course offered surgery, but it wasn’t just our purse who held us back- surgery is not always kind to old dogs, and there was no guaranty that it would improve the quality, nor the length of her life.

    I took her home, told the children and decided to make her last days comfortable and happy. She quickly took a turn for the worst, the tumors grew, and her stomach became bloated, she drank more than usual and was just not ‘around’ anymore. She slept more and more, refused to walk further than the absolute next street and lost the gleam in her eyes. She started to get clumsy, and stumbled going up stairs. I researched the internet, then called the vet, hoping to hear that there was still time…. Sadly the vet confirmed what I already knew, she was not enjoying life any longer, it was time to let her go !

    This was the hardest phone call I ever made, crying over the line I made the appointment for Friday- it would give us the weekend to mourn and let the reality sink in.

    On Friday I came home from work to say ‘good bye’, I found Føyke on Emilie’s bed sleeping, cuddled up against our youngest cat, this was a first and it felt like the kitty was saying farewell in his own way. My husband drove her to the veterinary clinic where she was quickly, and peacefully put to sleep.

    Putting a beloved pet to sleep is very hard, especially as it is nearly impossible to decide when is the right time, often it is a matter of ‘a day too soon, before a day too late!’

    Our pets give us so much unconditional love, it is our responsibility not to let them suffer. When you know they are probably hiding pain and discomfort, when they are old, or terminally ill, it might be best not just for your dog/cat, but for yourself, and your family not to sit and watch your friend fade away. It is painful to accept, but pets do not have the same lifespan as us, and there is no comfort in prolonging an inevitable end.

   

Thank you Føyke for 6 wonderful years as a most faithful, gentle and loyal family dog !

Emilie giving Føyke a little belly rub before the national day parade

Sweet, old Føyke
Føyke's last hours were spent napping with her favourite cat - Moumousse.
Jarlsberg Avis, February 11, 2010. A younger, naughtier Føyke featured in the local newspaper after a little escapade.


Monday, 21 October 2013

Histoire de la dentelle ( The history of lace )

   I recently added a new old book to my collection, at first glance the little worn out, water damaged volume has little visual appeal.... but once you turn the first page you find charming illustrations, and the story of lace as told by a person who wanted to remain anonymous by signing their name :

    M. de ***

   The book itself is poorly made, and some of the pages were still not seperated ( where the printer had used large sheets that were folded ) which leaves me to believe that it had not been read. I had to carefully cut the folded pages with a knife so as not to damage anymore than necessary this 1843 book.

   The writer explains in the first chapter that the reason the book is so short ( 86 pages )  is because the French do not like to read big books.

   It is rare to find writings from that time period which is as fresh and entertaining as this little volume proved to be.... If ever I find the time I should like to translate it into English....


  
Histoire de la dentelle

The author obviously wanted to remain anonymous



Poorly printed and bound



Monday, 23 August 2010

Mourning embroidery

   Here is a punch paper embroidery in my collection ( also known as Bristol board ).

   It is done in long stitch and has a photo of the deceased. The photograph is quite faded, but it shows a middle age lady wearing a hat.

   Punch paper embroidery was very popular, and there was a large variety availble with the pattern already printed on.


Bristol board embroidery